Do Not Make Me Jealous

Hi Bloggers wherever you are ..., marriage is one man needs in his life. By getting married the biological needs of legitimate and lawful can be obtained, making it safer and far from violations of the rules of God. By getting married then we will  have children to continue our life history. It's a small part of the many benefits of marriage.

The adage says "Getting easier than keeping". Exactly ..!, getting a life partner is more easier than keeping. Although there are a few people say "It's impossible for me to have a couples...". But we should know that when we've got it, it is much more difficult is keeping.

I do not mean to scare my good friend who had intended to get married. I am actually very pleased and happy when my friend had come with good intentions and immediately do it. But I want to remind that there are little things that we should not do when already having a wife or husband. If these little things we do that will make the atmosphere in the family even become uncomfortable. Happy can suddenly turn into sad and angry.

The little things are:

1. Do not praise a man or another woman in front of husband or wife.
For example, when we're walking together with your wife / husband us. Our hearts are happy even our spouse. Opportunity to walk together who may not necessarily be done once a week. Then when we passed men / women and we think to praise them, and we express with words or even just with our eyes, the happy mood is soon to change.

2. Do not mention someone who filled the space of our hearts before we got married
The majority of us have experienced periods of courtship. How wonderful they are, when we already have a husband / wife, then avoid mention him/her again. Including perhaps we've been married before. And our first wife/ housband died. It also should be avoided to mention him, praising and comparing.

Even this incident has also been experienced by Muhammad Rosululloh. One day Halah Bint Khuailid, sister of Khadijah visited to the Prophet. At that time Prophet was with 'Aisha, the Prophet's wife after Khadijah died. Halah Bint Khuailid greetings to the Prophet in front of the house. Prophet was surprised and pleased. Her greetings was similar to Khadijah said greetings. Prophet then opened the door and found Halah, not Khadijah. "It turns out you ... !". 'Aisha at that time saw the incident jealous and angry with the Prophet. "Why you always remember and mention her name..?, even she was dead and God has given instead, that's me...".

So that .., mutual understanding is the right attitude. Immediately apologize to the husband / wife when there is a dispute. No need to feel right or blame our spouse. By apologizing (succumb) will immediately improve the atmosphere. Not easy to bring together two characters, two different properties. But God will give way when we want to try and be patient.

Immediately married to who has enough age. For those who have not, please get ready to get married and prepare the life provision. Take responsibility ....

Thank you for stopping by and reading this page. May God continue to provide security, safety, smoothness and blessings .. aamiin.

Sources : H.R. Muslim, healthnews.ediets.com